Wednesday, December 7, 2011
I clearly remember one of my mom's registrars because she didn't shave under her arms. I totally remember the first time I saw the dark hair in her armpit as she lifted her arm up in some crazy movement of dedication to the cardio god. I was shocked, I didn't even know that women could grow hair there. I was intreguied. Why did this woman have hairy armpits when no other woman in my world did. Is it a choice to be hairy? And if so, why would she choose to look so different.
Fast forward a million years later and I am unshaven. There are actually several reasons that I don't shave. The first (of course), is becuse I am crazy lazy. But there is more to it than my unfailing dedication to one of the deadly sins....
When I got my first piercing at the age of 18 (because mom aforementioned Jazzer loving mom would not let me get it done "under age"), I did it because I wanted to stand out and look different. I've colored my hair pink and blue. I have tattoos. I wear my pentacle necklace loud and proud. Yes, I like to make it pseudo-obvious that I am not like everyone else.
But now, virutally everyone in my age group and under has started to do the same thing. I look around my town and see piercings, tattoos, and randomly colored hair everywhere. It no longer stands out as someone choosing to not fit into the dominant paradigm. Bummer....
This is the main reason that I don't shave. I get some amazing reactions from people when they see my hairy pits. On the surface I probably look pretty mainstream. I don't dress all the crazy or odd. My hair is now a "normal" color. My nose ring is so small that often people don't even know I have my nose pierced. I wear makeup and live in the suburbs.
Not shaving under my arms is my secret little way to stick it to the man! It is my little way of saying that I don't fit in and I don't want to. It is my little way to take back what is sexy and feminine. It is my way of saying this is how my body is and I want to keep it that way. So there!
I will never know why Jazzercise registrar lady didn't shave, but it is one of those moment that stands out as a pivotal point in my life. Which just goes to show you, you never know when you are making an impact on someone.
Plus, not using razors is better for the environment.